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Men go online hoping to impress a girl into writing back to him. This is the wrong approach.

Imagine you’re an attractive woman going online. What do you see? Guy after guy strutting around like those birds who puff our their red neck-sacs. look at my car look at how nice I am look at how athletic I am look at how many countries I’ve visited.

One profile just disappears into the next and you won’t get noticed (unless you are a tantra-teacher, firefighting pilot who performs free surgery on underprivileged babies on your yacht, or floating island).

Rather than trying to attract attention, create deep attraction.

And for the great majority of women, that means pay attention to THEM.

Now, with your email to her, this is fairly easy. Here is the shortcut to cutting through the noise. 1. Read her profile carefully. 2. Identify where she values herself most. Speak to THAT person. Admire it. Notice it. Praise it.

For example, I admire how close you are with your sister. My brother and I are the same way. or I see how much you love kids by the way you describe your job. It really shines through in your profile.

And then, to connect, add a childhood story or adventure about you and your brother. get the details in – where the story happened, the smells, sounds, dangers, the bite of the air, what it felt like when you returned home. name your brother. make it REAL for her. make YOU real for her.

Then, ask her a favorite childhood memory with her sister.

This way, you are leading her emotions, you are tapping her loving core and you are becoming far more real to her than the parade of bloodless profiles she is reading.

Break out from the crowd. Touch her heart rather than wave your flag in front of her face.